This is a rare country where you don't have to flock to the main cities to experience a "gay scene." In fact, while San Jose certainly has a vibrant gay nightlife with hip, happening bars and discos, most travelers would agree that San Jose is not Costa Rica 's best feature. In a country known for its lush beauty, San Jose falls pretty short of the mark.
However, it is making positive strides, and every year witnesses the birth of new fabulous restaurants and hotels. The city could still use a bath and a healthy coat of paint. Perhaps the best reason to stay a night in San Jose is actually its close proximity (2 hours) to the Pacuare River, considered one the top 5 white-water rafting rivers in the world!
Most visitors to Costa Rica fly into San Jose, and then take off from there to the surrounding coast and countryside. TACA Airlines, based out of El Salvador offers excellent service and the most non-stops to Costa Rica. And, unlike other airlines, they offer free booze on flights to Central America. Not that gay people care about that kind of thing, of course.