November 7, 2012
Smoking hot at 50 and relenting to younger
BY Honey West ("Ask Miss Honey")
Smoking Hot at 50,
First off you have to understand that, sometimes a younger person may mean well, but may not have the emotional maturity to deal with a relationships the same as a person who has had much more life experience.
Another thing to think about, you said she has been pursuing you for years? Some people, from all age categories are attracted to people who are unobtainable because it is safe, they may be afraid of commitment. When you gave into her wishes you changed the game and she might have gotten scared. She may not even understand why she did what she did.
Know this, if a person is not ready, for any reason, to commit to an intimate relationship, it does not always reflect on you. It could be the wrong place at the wrong time. Wait for someone who is ready. You deserve it.
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