Dear Princess Darby,
I have a problem. I am 22, with a child, and married. The problem is that I have been finding my self aroused by other women. I have never been with one, and I don't know how to tell my hubby this. I mean I am really eager to be with a woman. Please help.
HOT -N- SWEET
Dear Hot and Sweet,
It's obvious your position as a married parent offers dual responsibility to your partner and child.
There are two operative words here, married, and parent.
If you feel you strongly about your attraction, then I would first see your doctor and perhaps a therapist.
There are so many changes one goes through childbirth, or as a partner as a new parent.
Before you commit yourself to any actions and talk to your partner, seek advice first.
You may be not only "Hot and Sweet" for a woman, but after that taste is satiated, you may be permanently hot and and out the door!
Think this over. Take your time. There are three lives involved, and whatever the action taken, the action may not be reversed. If you decide to follow through, I would see a counselor with your partner, after you've seen professional assistance.
Princess Darby
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