Most of the events included on the list are speaking engagements—for GLAAD, the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force and too many other LGBT rights organizations to mention. She's been doing them for so long, and has done them so frequently, she can't remember which was her first.
"I think it was for the Human Rights Campaign," she says after thinking for a bit. Regardless, she was obviously a hit, as evidenced by the number of requests she's fielded since.
Light says it's been easy to accept those invitations because "the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community, to me, has shown so much courage and self-esteem. When they were given nothing—and I mean nothing—they didn't turn into these angry, vicious victims. They said, ‘We get it. You're not going to give us anything. So, we're going to take care of our own. We're to drive our friends to the hospital, we're going to change their IVs, we're going to find out what meds they should be on.'
"I wanted to tell them how much they've inspired me and guided me over the years," Light says of that first speaking engagement, whenever and wherever it occurred. "They have helped me achieve the level of courage and self-esteem I have long seen in them. They have helped me become the person I have always wanted to be."