I am who I am up front. I don't like bull s#*t or bull s*#ters. Find the guys in Chicago to be just that. Be yourself! Don't be someone your not just to fit in. There is more to life than tired show tunes and cabaret shows in dance clubs. "live in your own skin, you've got to be yourself..their aint nobody else."
Turn-ons:
self confidence (something that i lack) honesty a big plus. people/web sites that don't ask a million questions.
Turn-offs:
LIERS. people/web sites that ask a million questions.