I successful in my work and don't let it (now) run my life. I hate to say I'm an older man because that even turns me off. I don't feel old, I work out, I ski, I did a half marathon (OK, I walked it, but in 3 1/4 hours), I've got season tickets to the Cubs (maybe I am getting old). I like to cook, eat out, work out, travel, go to concerts (mostly classical), theater and dance. I don't mind getting dirty and sweaty during the day but I like to clean up at night. I can ski all day (blues & groomed blacks) and still have enough left to stay up until at least 9:00. Oh yes, I'm a pretty nice guy.
Turn-ons:
I'm looking for pals to buddy around with. Guys (30-45) with their feet on the ground who like both the finer things but also the Cubs; that can't be asking too much. Guys who like working out, travel, food, music. Being stable, not into the bar/circuit scene but likes to go out for dinner and drinks. Basically good people, not too much baggage and nice looking, of course.
Turn-offs:
Web sites that delete everything you just spend a lonnnng time writing when you leave one thing out. (I don't think my home town is a required field!) I'm not spending as much time on detail here. You'll have to take my word that I'm a nice guy.