notthedirector
City: Chicago
State: IL
Age: 39
Height: 6'0"
Weight: 180
Hair Color: no hair
Eye Color: blue
Gender: gay male
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Interests
Like to play tennis, work out, run. Like to have coffee, go to movies, relax and chill. Pretty easily entertained.
Favorite movies
Comedies for sure - recently saw I Love You Man. Love foreign films too.
Favorite music
Mostly listen to top 40/pop music but like a little bit of a lot (not everything tho).
Favorite food
American - I'm a cheap date. I do like Mexican, Chinese, Indian, Italian too.
Favorite TV shows
It's Always Sunny, Modern Family, The Middle, 30 Rock
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about notthedirector
To get something you've never had, you must do something never done.
My self-summary
I think too much, like to have fun and explore life with people I like. I love to laugh and love to surround myself with people who remind me to enjoy life every day.
Fitness is important to me and I also do my best to eat well, somedays to the point of being neurotic about it.
I've lived in Chicago for a few years but have dedicated too much time to work to be able to appreciate this city for all it's worth. I'm getting better and plan to continue in 2011.
I do like that this site matches you according to friendship compatability too. New friends are always a good thing!
What I’m doing with my life
I've worked for the government for the past couple of years and have really enjoyed what I do because, in my own way, I actually feel like I'm making a difference. I'm looking forward to new opportunities in the future.
I’m really good at
kindness and being non-judgmental. I really try to consider others first and often find myself thinking of another's "shoes".
The first things people usually notice about me
blue eyes, and obviously shaved head - some love it and some hate it. And I'm ok with both. No one is everyone's cup of tea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
not a huge book reader anymore - usually health/nutrition books. I love comedies (life is too serious as it is) but can usually enjoy a flick from most genres. Recently I've begun watching foreign gay films. Oh and I absolutely love Bollywood movies! Music... what can I say, I'm a top 40 pop kinda guy but open to new experiences. Food - like most things and will try most things. It's hard to find a place where I like nothing on the menu. But I can't cook at all! I'd rather find someone who is looking for his sous chef than someone that drops $30-50 on dinner every night - it all shits out the same and I'd rather spend the $ on something more meaningful.
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Favorite Quotations To get something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done.
"Look. If you had one shot, one opportunity. To seize everything you ever wanted. One moment. Would you capture it? Or just let it slip?" - Eminem
Favorite Athletes Michael Chang, Gustavo Kuerten, Gabriela Sabatini, Rafael Nadal, Gareth Thomas.
Music Pink, Rihanna, Top 40 Hits, 80's Music
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Movies Like Stars on Earth, Pyaar Impossible, GoldenEye. C.R.A.Z.Y., The Hangover, Slumdog Millionaire, Force, Swades, Dostana, Mean Girls.
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Television 30 Rock, The Middle, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Modern Family, Outsourced
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Games ZumaBejeweled BlitzAngry Birds.
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"Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. But today is a gift. That is why they call it the present" ~~Oogway
The six things I could never do without
my mom
chocolate
working out
wikipedia
dental floss
and my lip balm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what others are thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
hopefully out, but usually just with a few friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a sucker for Disneyland/world. And would love anyone who shares my fondness for Splash Mountain.
Also, I melt for a great smile!
Oh and I have a huge underwear fetish (guess I'm not all that shy about sharing!)
I’m looking for
Guys who like guys
Ages 28-42
Near me
For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you're looking for someone easy-going, that is interested in getting to know you and can hold a conversation.
I like masculine men and guys a little more adventurous than me. If "laid back" means not needy, I must be dating all the wrong guys. I don't disrespect a friend or lover but constant neediness is a total turnoff. Two people both having lives is important for a successful relationship. Great teeth and hygiene are musts. I'm attracted to the typical hot guy as everyone is but definitely look for more - I often find myself attracted to a particular quirkiness about a guy. Being fit is a must as I don't know how well our lifestyles would mesh otherwise.
While most of my friends are younger, it seems that it takes an older man (emphasis on man) to appeal to me these days. When I do a search filter I tend to look at 37-42 first, 28-42 second and then beyond. That said... the right man is the right man! Why is it that I only get hit on my guys in their early 20's? I guess they must be the mister rights!
Not all about sex but very sexual - easy to talk to, enjoy relaxing with coffee or a movie.
Turn-ons:
Masculine, funny, decisive men. oh and sexy underwear!
Turn-offs:
Dramatic, dishonest, bad teeth. Oh yeah, and guys my age who are searching for 20 year olds. Really??
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