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My ex, C, who lives in Long Island, NY was the love of my life for the past four years - or I thought. The last month we'd been talking less and less because it was hard to hold up a conversation, something we've NEVER had a problem with. Last weekend I went to NY (from Chicago) to visit her and an Uncle that lives not too far from her. Last Friday, the day we were supposed to meet and hang out, C ditches me. I call and text, but no response. Later that night she texted she had other plans. I asked her why she ditched me but there was no response. I took the hint. So today, knowing the password to her phone, I decided to check what she was hiding. I've never breached her privacy before, but I wanted an answer. There, in her voicemail, was a message from TWO (yes TWO) different women that stated they missed her and couldn't wait to see her again. The news broke my heart. But I guess I knew already deep inside. I'm so glad that I found out who she really is before I uprooted my life to live in the same city as this cheating lying *cursing*. At least I have my family and (straight) friends to lean on. God bless them all.