Well done, Glee. Well done!
My account e-mail keeps saying I have one e-mail that I have not opened. I browsed through all of it and even my old ones...where is it?
Then I noticed some people who have e-mailed me in the past who now have photos apparently that I have never seen before (nice!) So I said Hi!
Where is that darn e-mail?
CT: Hey...I'm gonna ask u something, and of course u can choose not to respond as usual...Did I do something wrong? Is there specifically something wrong with me?
Me: Honestly I don't even know who this is since I lost all my numbers. Who is this?
CT: It's CT...went on a date in March which I thought was great, never really heard from u again until I ran into you at Sidetrack last Monday...
Me: Well it's my fault for not being honest to tell you I was no longer interested. I don't like disappointing people and would rather act like an ass to get away with it. It just seem that it was not a good match. I don't want to waste you time.
CT: Well that would have been easier to me than acting like u don't know me...I'm a big boy and can handle "disappointment" but thanks for telling me I guess.
I was a jerk for doing that back then. Though I could only say that it always feels so difficult to break the "bad news" to someone. Of course, I've been on the other side. But I'm still not sure if I'd rather have the person tell me straight up or brush me off and be a jerk about it. Telling him now seems so easy to do but like he said, it could have been easier for him then. It's done I suppose...I wish during moments like these from now on that I could just have the courage to be up front. I still wonder why it was such a difficult thing for me to do.
CPBill
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I think honesty is always the best approach. The older I get the less time I want to waste on the "What’s he thinkin" type stuff. Dates are perfect for getting to know someone better. If there is a fit; there’s a fit. If not, then it’s a good idea to shoot the text or email that says “I had a great time with you and I’m glad to have a new friend!”
Now, if he’s a total moron and still doesn’t get it; he’s not worth you governing your tongue. Tell him you’re not interested in dating. I am sure this chap who hailed you is cute and nice but that ONE date was in March. EIGHT MONTHS AGO! Logic suggests that you would have called/text/emailed him by now if you were interested in another date.
So, what are you up to this weekend luv?
~Bill Pritchard
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